Like everyone else on earth I've always heard of Breakfast at Tiffany's as a "Movie you should watch before you die." And watching it for the first time in 2022 I have to say... I absolutely have to agree.
Not because it's a cinematic masterpiece or because Hepburn's acting is retroactively superb, in that she perfectly portrays future real-life girls mimicking her character (which makes it probably the first actress in the world to act in the 4th dimension), but because of its message.
To me, a male who dated pre and post tinder; was amazing to see so many girls I've met and dated through the years in Hepburn's character, so afraid of love, so wanting to be shallow and quirky and using it as an armor, and with very little self-preservation and an aberration to commitment and monogamy. Up until that point, I had thought it was a phenomenon of my times, but it's kind of comforting and disturbing to see that this has been happening since forever, it seems.
It makes you wonder if that's just a coping mechanism most women have after their first true love burn.
What's disturbing about it is that many girls that have since seen the movie didn't get that Hepburn's character is not a role model, but a warning tale and the worst person in the movie (she abandons her cat because she was afraid the cat loved her, for Christ's sake) and have modeled themselves after her, buying posters inspired on the movie and such and not seeing the irony of it.
Back when I was dating and before I saw the movie, it got to a point that whenever I went to a girl's place and saw Breakfast at Tiffany's paraphernalia I would take it as a red flag and walk the other way. After seeing the movie, I now understand the link between the two.
But I digress, the movie is good in that it makes it about the message it wants to give and not so much about anything else, mixed with a few laughs here and there. It's an important movie to watch about modern relationships if you're not dense enough to miss the message about it.
I highly recommend it.
Not because it's a cinematic masterpiece or because Hepburn's acting is retroactively superb, in that she perfectly portrays future real-life girls mimicking her character (which makes it probably the first actress in the world to act in the 4th dimension), but because of its message.
To me, a male who dated pre and post tinder; was amazing to see so many girls I've met and dated through the years in Hepburn's character, so afraid of love, so wanting to be shallow and quirky and using it as an armor, and with very little self-preservation and an aberration to commitment and monogamy. Up until that point, I had thought it was a phenomenon of my times, but it's kind of comforting and disturbing to see that this has been happening since forever, it seems.
It makes you wonder if that's just a coping mechanism most women have after their first true love burn.
What's disturbing about it is that many girls that have since seen the movie didn't get that Hepburn's character is not a role model, but a warning tale and the worst person in the movie (she abandons her cat because she was afraid the cat loved her, for Christ's sake) and have modeled themselves after her, buying posters inspired on the movie and such and not seeing the irony of it.
Back when I was dating and before I saw the movie, it got to a point that whenever I went to a girl's place and saw Breakfast at Tiffany's paraphernalia I would take it as a red flag and walk the other way. After seeing the movie, I now understand the link between the two.
But I digress, the movie is good in that it makes it about the message it wants to give and not so much about anything else, mixed with a few laughs here and there. It's an important movie to watch about modern relationships if you're not dense enough to miss the message about it.
I highly recommend it.
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