As many have no doubt observed, and perhaps for the few who do not know, this lovely, talented actress, someone so many of us adore, is now suffering from Alzheimer's and required 24/7 care, so I've read. That saddens me deeply, on so many levels, but because I've always really loved this lady, and her films. As for the irony in the title of the this film, I've also read that all she remembers of the fifty plus years she spent with Paul is that she was once married to someone "handsome." As indeed he was. This is not a film review, and may be disqualified on that point, but a paean to a southern girl, who lit up our lives for so many years. Forever in our affections.