I am surprised at the number of reviewers who hated "About Schmidt".
I thought that "About Schmidt" was a great movie because it told a very believable story of a retired man who has to face some unpleasant truths as he gets older. He pays a price for not preparing.
Warren Schmidt portrays a familiar story. He had a middle class white-collar job that provided enough money for a nice house and a big RV (although half was paid by his wife as his uptight daughter reminds him).
His over dependence on his wife, his polite non-welcome back at his old job, his strained relationship with his only child: these are very real possibilities for us in modern life.
Many reviewers really disliked the prospective son-in-law and his family. But guess what. When your kids marry, they usually don't give you a veto. At least the son-in-law is genuinely friendly to Schmidt and he and the daughter seem to love each other.
Kathy Bates and her tribe are louder, poorer, more touchy-feely than Schmidt. But they also are genuinely friendly to Schmidt when he does show up, after being blown off by his daughter when he wants to arrive in Denver early to help plan the wedding. Howard Hessman did a great job as the father of the groom. So many issues between him and Kathy Bates. Sound familiar?
Kathy Bates naked is a very typical depiction of the 50 something American woman. The truth hurts here. Jack Nicholson is a little paunchy himself in this film. We may be overweight but we are still here and guess what, we have sexual feelings even as we age.
I really did like this movie because it made me think. I will be 65 in ten years. My 15 year old daughter will be about the right age to marry by then. Will she pick a long haired, friendly but underachieving guy? Parents can see problems down the road that their kids can't with choices in careers, marriages, spending etc. But children still make their own way as this movie reminds us.
The glimpses of the daughter growing up (bath time, violin recital, horseback lessons) are extremely familiar to me. The fact that once she is grown up, there is a wide gulf between them, is a cautionary tale for all of us.
The message of this movie to me is "make an effort now". Make plans before you are 65 so that you have something to do (paid or unpaid) after you retire. You need to stay close to kids and friends. Apparently Schmidt only had one friend in Omaha, the man who had an old affair with Mrs Schmidt. His mistake.
Stay in touch with people or you will end up as Warren Schmidt, pouring out his heart in letters to someone who can't read them. That is a very powerful message. I liked this movie.
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