Jeez. I can't even call the actions that Ray committed giant red flags because these were plain evil acts that any sane person would not even entertain. The way she tries to place some of the blame on other people to soften the blow of her own stupid actions is something else. Of course her mother did not wanna talk to her after the mother had repeatedly tried to tell her and to warn her not to date the guy but she kept lying to her time and time and again
She got pregnant and gave birth and he still treated her like crap and even tried to stab her yet she still wanted him and would do anything to be with him. What was the mother supposed to say and do when you didn't want to hear it. Even after she left her baby with Ray and came back to the horror of all the injuries the baby sustained, from the head injury, broken limbs to the baby's tongue being burned she still do not want to believe he did it.
I wonder if she even vocalised to the hospital staff about who did it. Also her pride to not tell her mother what happened cause she didn't want to hear her say "I told you so" meant that she chose not to assign and leave another relative like the mother to watch over the baby while she showered and took a much needed breath and lo and behold that man came back to try to kill the baby again. Utterly shocking!
Also the justice system extremely failed here. The way they contiously let out that vicious man to continuously inflict damage to children and other black women is shocking. Black women are likely die at the hands of black men than any other demographic because the justice system just do not care when crimes are committed against black women.
I am not sure if this lady is telling the truth about Ray Junior not wanting to to talk to her because he blames her for the death of his own father. Ray Jr surely knows the other people his father killed and also the abuse he himself endured. Something is not adding up here.
Based on her poor decision-making skills I truly wonder what Ray Jr's childhood was like. What other men came into his life and whether his mother ever prioritised him cause we already know she is the type to put her man first before her own child as evidenced by how Ray repeatedly tried to kill Ray Jr from dangling him over the open window and trying to chuck him out of the window and yet she still stayed. I feel sorry for Ray Jr. Child protective services should have taken this baby and placed him in better care.
Also if she is telling the truth, that she tried to warn Teyona. Then wow another mom who failed her child all for the love of this man. I am shocked that she even let that man in the house even after he had viciously murdered her child...... . It seems no matter how much Ray abused these women and their children they still refused to believe he did it even with the truth staring right in the face. So puzzling.