The Wedding Singer (1998) User Reviews

I didn't know that Adam Sandler had it in him...

[AlsExGal · 8/10 · 14 October 2023]

To be the hopeless romantic type. The Wedding Singer" (1998) is a delightful romantic comedy that captures the essence of the '80s in a whirlwind of nostalgia, love, and laughter. Directed by Frank Coraci and starring Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore in the lead roles, this film takes us on a charming journey through the world of wedding singing, set against the backdrop of the neon-soaked era.

The film's plot follows Robbie Hart (Adam Sandler), a talented wedding singer with a broken heart after being left at the altar by his fiancée. Drew Barrymore plays Julia Sullivan, a radiant waitress who is engaged to a wealthy but unfaithful man. The complicating factor is that Julia doesn't know this but Robbie does. As Robbie and Julia form a deep friendship, they navigate the complexities of their own love lives and find solace in each other's company.

One of the standout elements of "The Wedding Singer" is the film's ability to transport the audience back to the '80s. From the vibrant costumes, iconic music, and references to popular culture of the time, the film captures the era's essence perfectly. The soundtrack, in particular, is a major highlight, featuring hit songs from the '80s, setting the tone for every scene and resonating with viewers who grew up during that period.

Adam Sandler delivers a standout performance as Robbie Hart, showcasing his comedic talent and a more vulnerable, relatable side that endeared him to a broader audience. Drew Barrymore's charm and innocence are a perfect match for Sandler's humor, creating an on-screen chemistry that makes their characters' budding romance genuinely heartwarming.

The supporting cast also adds depth and humor to the film, with memorable performances by Steve Buscemi, Christine Taylor, and Jon Lovitz, among others. The comedic timing and witty one-liners keep the audience engaged and entertained throughout.

While "The Wedding Singer" primarily falls under the romantic comedy genre, it explores themes of unrequited love, friendship, and self-discovery. It's not just a story about love but also a journey of personal growth and finding one's true passion.

The film is not without its flaws, with some moments that may feel overly sentimental or clichéd, but they are easily forgiven in the context of the film's overall charm.

In conclusion, "The Wedding Singer" is a delightful '80s time capsule that offers a feel-good, romantic experience with a good dose of humor. With its memorable performances, iconic soundtrack, and a heartfelt story, it's a classic in the rom-com genre that continues to be a source of enjoyment for both fans of the '80s and new generations of viewers alike. If you're in the mood for a sweet and nostalgic trip down memory lane, "The Wedding Singer" is a perfect choice.

Great entertainment with a lot of heart

[The_Void · 7/10 · 23 September 2004]

A little known fact about me is that I'm a big fan of fluffy romantic comedies. Why wouldn't you want to spend 90 minutes or so watching a film; laughing and ultimately feeling good at the end of it? I don't consider fluffy romance films to be at the absolute top of cinema, but they're good fun, and therefore get a thumbs up from me. The Wedding Singer, however, gets not one thumb up; but both thumbs, firmly, up. So, why does The Wedding Singer succeed more than most films in it's sub genre? Is it the jokes? The beautiful female lead? The gratuitous helping of 80's pop songs? No, it's that this movie has a lot of heart; that's what makes it a winner.

Adam Sandler stars as the quintessential 'loser'. He's a wedding singer, and not a very good one either. He specialises in doing terrible covers of 80's songs. It's not the sort of act that I would want at my wedding. His life gets worse one day, his wedding day, to be exact, when someone doesn't turn up. The bride, that is. Now in a deep spiral of depression, our hero doesn't see any way forward. His next gig is a washout and there's love all around him; even his newfound friend, the cute little waitress that works at the same place as him is getting married. And to a man who doesn't deserve her, I might add. I don't think I really need to tell you what comes next, but even though it's a predictable ride; trust me, it's a ride you want to be on.

Adam Sandler tends to be a very annoying actor; and for that reason he is almost universally disliked, but it is undeniable that he is good in this movie. Nobody else could have given the character what Sandler gave him; his performance is both entertaining and believable, and therefore is just right for the movie. Drew Barrymore was also perfectly cast. She is the perfect girl in this movie; all smiles and sunshine, and it's impossible not to fall in love with her. The movie also features great little turn from Steve Buscemi, who provides the film with one of it's funniest moments towards the start.

As mentioned; The Wedding Singer has a lot of heart. From the way that the characters interact with each other, particularly Sandler and Barrymore, it is obvious that they are in love. The movie also has some points to make on the subject of love; The Wedding Singer portrays that being in love is overall better than being a 'Fonz' type, womanising character. The message at the movie's centre is also a worthwhile one; the movie professes that it isn't important who you fall in love with; it doesn't matter whether or not he's merely a wedding singer, all that matters is the love between two people. The movie says that love is all you need; and that is a worthwhile message in any movie. The movie's message is lost somewhat under the barrage of jokes; but it's most certainly there and I for one think that it's a shame that a movie that is entertaining and funny can't be considered in the same league as other, more serious movies with a similar message.

Overall, The Wedding Singer is at the very top of the romantic comedy genre. It will make you laugh, and you will ultimately feel for the characters. The fact that this movie has something to say is only another reason to recommend it; especially as it says it with a great big smile on it's face. The Wedding Singer is not a film that you will want to miss; it's feel-good at it's best.

To date,Sandler's best work.

[SmileysWorld · 7/10 · 22 June 2004]

I've said it before,Adam Sandler does not do great films.He merely wants to entertain us.Though there are times when he has failed miserably,this is not the case with The Wedding Singer.While it does showcase Sandler's usual juvenile humor,this is by far his most likable character,even to date,and the chemistry between him and Drew Barrymore is undeniable. Though this film is not flawless by any means,it is funny and charming just the same.

a break from the 'yuck of the world'

[claire-mcgrath · 1 December 2004]

I think that 'the wedding singer' is a simple, feelgood movie, which doesn't try to be anything else.

Like Jim Carey, who took many goes to strike the right balance, Adam Sandler is a far better comedian when he stops trying and realize he is far funnier being himself rather than over-the top characters (like the awful 'Billy Madison')and allows his supporting cast to be goofy.

My 10 year old son is a huge fan of all the SNL (90s)crew and their movies, and loved this even more than '50 first dates'. The wedding singer appeals to the those waiting to feel that way about someone and those of us who feel that way right now about someone.

The 'knockers' of this flick would be those that can only relate to the dumped 'Robbie Hart', or have no heart at all!

So if you can relate to loving and being loved (by anyone!), this film will leave you feeling warm and fuzzy. Great to watch with the whole family!!

Just had to add...being a teenager in the 80's probably helped my endearment to this movie.

Sweet

[Quinoa1984 · 7/10 · 30 April 2000]

The Wedding Singer is the first Adam Sandler flick that guys can take their girlfriends to see. It is a nice (and funny) comedy about a guy (wedding singer Sandler) who has been dumped by his fiancee and is soon falls in love with (waitress) Drew Barrymore who is also engaged, but isn't in love either. It is a nice comedy that almost comes close to a romantic comedy. Steve Buscemi, Jon Lovitz, and best of all, Billy Idol. A+

Adam Sandler is good

[r96sk · 7/10 · 10 June 2020]

Not as amusing as expected, but 'The Wedding Singer' is an enjoyable enough watch.

Adam Sandler is good as Robbie, with Drew Barrymore fitting in nicely as Julia. They certainly do have noticeable chemistry. Christine Taylor (Holly) and Alexis Arquette (George) are decent supports, also.

I had predicted extra laughs and, given how the film plays out, a more romantic feel to things. It's all fine though, I felt entertained to a satisfactory level. The music is well chosen, credit to Teddy Castellucci.

I like Sandler and Barrymore better in 'Blended', but this production does leave positive thoughts.

This movie floored me

[sonata13 · 10/10 · 4 December 2002]

I'm usually pretty cynical about cheesy movies but this movie absolutely floored me. Drew Barrymore was phenomenal playing role of Julia Sullivan. I've seen the movie at least 30 times by now and her expressions still make me cry, they're just so sincere. I don't know how else to put it. As for Adam Sandler I think that this is his best role yet, he's a real person in this movie not just some overgrown immature goofball. On top of everything it's a brilliant 80s satire, for me its right up there with American Psycho. I understand why someone would have reservations about watching this movie but my advice would be to put your cynicism aside for a couple of hours and just watch with an uncritical mind. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.

Entertaining at parts

[Floated2 · 6/10 · 26 October 2017]

The Wedding Singer is considered one of Adam Sandler's better comedy films and especially of his earlier films of his career. The film is what is to be expected, with Sandler portraying his typical nice lovable guy that ends up winning over the love interest. There are some bits of amusement and entertainment but overall the film is quite predictable and is what is expected. The Wedding Singer is not quite like his earlier comedies, where the comedy is more juvenile, silly and over the top. Which is why many consider this of a more mature film. Overall, the Wedding Singer will bring back nostalgia for many and is another reason as to why it is as praised as it is, though it is quite sappy and not in a good way.

1980s Flashback to a charming romantic comedy

[mdm-11 · 9/10 · 13 October 2004]

Adam Sandler (a Wedding Singer) and Drew Barrymore (a waitress) first meet at someone else's wedding. They soon meet again, when Barrymore is making plans for her own wedding (to a total jerk), even though deep inside she feels that she's "settling" for security without true love. Meanwhile Sandler finds out about the two-timing bozo, when the groom-to-be brags about his adventures with every sexy girl that comes along. Secretly in love with Barrymore, Sandler eventually sweeps her off her feet.

Look for a great cameo appearance by Billy Idol. The air plane "proposal" is a sweet highlight, you'll love it! The soundtrack (all hits of the mid 80s) is a nice touch, too. From "Love Stinks" to "99 Luftballoons" it's all there. -- This is my favorite Adam Sandler movie. Treat yourself to a bag-a-laughs and a few mushy moments, this is top entertainment!

"Do You Really Want To Hurt Me?"

[adamjohns-42575 · 7/10 · 16 July 2021]

There are only three Adam Sandler films that I have ever really liked - 'Grown Ups 1 and 2' and this one.

I don't know if it's just because it's set in an era I enjoy so much or if it's because of all the references to the 80's that I love and are delivered quite hysterically.

I still don't rate Adam particularly highly in this film, but I could at least get behind his character and route for him more than I could with other films.

The story is sweet. I do love a romance and the supporting actors and their stories are all very enjoyable.

There is something about Allan Covert in that red leather jacket, with the tache, that is quite fanciable too.

The music is superb, even when it is being slaughtered by some of the singers, because they are just great songs and the backing songs they used are fantastic too. It would make a really good jukebox stage musical if it hasn't already.

706.75/1000.

absolutely awful

[tedwards77 · 1/10 · 13 February 2002]

I begrudge even giving 2 minutes of my time to this film, it's so bad, but I though I'd warn others. I rarely write reviews, but felt a need to here. There's not a single thing funny about it, not one scene.

Its nothing like the 80's and shame on anyone who lived through the 80's who think it is realistic. Its soppy, stupid and a pathetic plot that anyone could guess. Adam Sandler, who is awful in everything mumbled throughout.

The worst thing is people who weren't around in the 80's actually seem to believe it was like this, in the same way they believe Braveheart, Patriot & Titanic had realism in them.

The poorest film ever.

Awww, the 80's :)

[lilcutie18613 · 10/10 · 27 July 2005]

Adam Sandler plays Robbie Hart, a wedding singer with only enough money to get by. He was going to get married, but Linda, his fiancé', doesn't show up, and finally confronts him saying that she was having second thoughts. Drew Barrymore plays Julia Sullivan, a shy girl engaged to the wrong man. They meet when Julia is waitressing at the place Robbie works at. They are instantly friends and get along quite well.

This simple plot is expanded by the great and memorable characters and the actors who portray the roles. It is funny and has plenty of memorable lines. And if this isn't enough for you to shout "WAHOO!" the chemistry between Julia and Robbie is right on and I'm surprised they aren't dating in real life. This is a great romantic comedy so just watch it without any questions! It has become one of my favorites.

Cheesy but great

[AscendeSuperius · 7/10 · 14 September 2021]

Like all of Adam Sandler's other films, it's a little dumb, but very sweet and heartwarming. While this film is not perfect by a long shot and the front is a little dry, the classic cheesy storyline is done right, and for a cheesy rom com, it sure was a good watch.

As a teenager, this was hilarious

[Mr-Fusion · 5/10 · 10 August 2015]

My attitude towards "The Wedding Singer" has really taken a dive over the years. I remember when everyone was talking about it in high school, and it was pretty good. This was back when ironic gag-a-minute '80s humor was funny. Now, it just seems half-assed (a DeLorean rolls up playing the "Miami Vice" theme). There are still a couple of good laughs here and there: Jon Lovitz, the rapping granny, Frank Silvero), but the romcom formula is being played to the fullest here - two destined lovers kept apart by misunderstandings, miscommunications, etc. - and Sandler's this ridiculously sensitive milquetoast. Were it not so syrupy, this would be easier to stomach.

5/10

Delightful!

[jlthornb51 · 7/10 · 23 April 2015]

Adam Sandler had made two decent movies. Actually they were exceptional films. Punch Drunk love was one, with Emily Watson elevating him to a new and entirely fresh level. This is the other. Interestingly, just as Emily Watson made such an impact, so does Drew Barrymore in this film. She is nothing less than adorable and as an actress, raises Sandler up out of his usual routine. The opening sequence with the credits is absolutely one of the best starts of a comedy ever filmed. The guest cameos are stunningly hilarious, especially Steve Buscemi. The movie does drag a bit in the middle but overall it is a very good romantic comedy and for Adam Sandler, a true work of art.

First Adam Sandler Film I Ever Enjoyed

[gpeevers · 7/10 · 19 March 2019]

Set in 1985 it's the story of a wedding singer (Adam Sandler), who is seeking the stability and security of marriage when he is stood up at the altar. On the other side waitress (Drew Barrymore) who is seeking the same and about to marry the wrong guy.

Cute and relatively inoffensive with some nostalgic and very funny reflections on the music and 'culture' of the 1980's. When I first saw this movie upon it's release I went in virtually kicking and screaming after having the misfortune of catching the truly awful Billy Madison on television. But here Sandler is much more restrained than in some of his previous efforts.

The two leads come across well enough but they are not really breaking any new ground here and the cameos are well used, in particular Steve Buscemi as a drunken best man. The films strength is largely ins 1980's satiric nods.

The Ups and Downs of Love

[PseudoFritz · 9/10 · 31 August 2004]

To repeat a theme, I'm not a big fan of Adam Sandler, but I love this movie.

Robbie Hart is a genuinely likable character; he's a person I would like to have as a friend, and he's a performer I would gladly hire to sing at my OWN wedding (Sandler also seems completely comfortable with his character, while even Drew Barrymore sometimes sounds like she's merely reciting written dialogue). Yes, he's a capital-R Romantic, but that seems like a strong qualification for someone who makes his living at other people's weddings. I like the whole idea of a romantic comedy being set behind the scenes of the whole wedding game, and some of the most telling scenes involve Robbie guiding Julia through the preparations with an insider's eye.

Probably the funniest parts of the movie (to me) are those that play to Robbie's broken heart; it's probably the best depiction of the depression of the newly-dumped I've ever seen (in particular, I love the "Kill Me Please" song). Hey, I've been there.

This all being said, however, I think the touch-all-the-landmarks-of-the-mid-'80s approach gets awfully heavy-handed at times. The musical choices, though, were excellent.

Sweet lovable duo

[SnoopyStyle · 7/10 · 29 October 2013]

Robbie Hart (Adam Sandler) is a lowly wedding singer. He gets left at the alter, and finds a true friend in waitress Julia Sullivan (Drew Barrymore) who's engaged to a douche.

Drew Barrymore is supremely cute and lovable. Adam Sandler is still likable as the lovable loser. Together they make a wonderful on screen couple. She lights up the screen and he puts her on a pedestal.

The music is stacked with great 80s hits. It has all the kitschy 80s touch. It makes all the fun in the world. The story is as predictable as most rom-coms. The humor is heart warming and sweet. Funniest bit has to be tranny bandmate George (Alexis Arquette) who keeps singing "Do You Really Want To Hurt Me". It's not surprising that the script has so many great comedians who worked on it.

Not the typical Sandler movie

[shawn9210 · 9/10 · 30 April 2004]

The Wedding Singer and Punch Drunk Love standout from typical Sandler movies is two important ways. 1) The humor is subtler in these movies, and Sandler is much more subdued. 2) Critics actually like these two movies.

The Wedding Singer is a pretty average romantic story that wins because of funny performances and the ever elusive "chemistry" between Sandler and Barrymore. This was the first movie that taught me what romantic chemistry was. While you're watching it you not only want the characters Robbie and Julia to get together, but you want Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore to get together. The chemistry is that strong. A reason people, especially guys, don't like romance movies is because often the love between the leads seem contrived and forced. Thankfully, the Wedding Singer steers clear from that, and actually allows you to have an emotional stake in the characters.

Sadly, the movie is slightly forgettable, as it merely succeeds in its goals but fails to impress. However, it's great fun while it lasts and you'll always have a fond, if somewhat faded, memory of the movie.

Why do I like this movie so much?

[alombardy · 7/10 · 2 June 2014]

I am not a fan of Adam Sandler. His comedy is usually crude and panders to the lowest common denominator of cinema-goer. So why do I tolerate, nay enjoy his performance in this movie?

I think it's because this was one of his earlier efforts and as such he didn't have as much creative control as he does over the tripe he makes now. The comedy is family friendly but actually genuinely good for the most part, the romance is just about on the scale of believable, and the soundtrack is upbeat and fits the tone.

Part of the success of this movie for me is the fact that it's a 90s movie about the 80s, which we don't see very often. The result is the innocent naiveté of the 90s mixed with the elaborate, flamboyant extravagance of the preceding decade and it's a winning combination. It culminates in just a general 'feel-good' vibe that thrives in the midst of safe but quality comedy and a cheesy, predictable yet satisfying narrative.

Billy Idol's cameo is a highlight and fairly veteran actors such as Steve Buscemi turn in surprisingly adept comic performances alongside Sandler and Drew Barrymore as the romantic leads. The shame, of course, is that people will form an opinion of this move when they see Sandler's face on the front and it may well turn them away from a corny yet very good comedy worth seeing. 7/10.

Mildly funny remake of a very old plot

[mrnews97 · 4/10 · 29 September 2001]

Not much to say about this one. A few yucks, but I have to defer to Roger Ebert here: the plot is as old as the hills, and they filmed a zillion of these silly stories in the 1930's onward, but back then they seemed to realize they WERE silly, and had fun with them. Now they take it so seriously, which makes you groan "Oh come on". Adam Sandler mumbles a lot, there are some very one-dimensional characterizations, some vaguely interesting characters whose roles go absolutely nowhere, and a plot that you can peg in the first 5-10 minutes of the film. This would all be forgiveable if the thing were really funny, but there are only a couple of good laughs. Drew Barrymore is an excellent actress, but her talents are wasted in this one. There are funnier films to rent, so keep looking.

Funny Singer!

[Moonlyn · 10/10 · 4 August 2005]

This quirky film has everything- lots and lots of comedy, a nice touch of romance, some violence and a hint of sadness now and again. Oh and it also stars 2 of the most charming actors- Drew Barrymore, as Julia and Adam Sandler, as Robbie. Their on-screen chemistry is very remarkable to watch and their individual charm is most appealing. The movie is set in the 80's and is a great nostalgic piece for that time period- in all is cheesiness and glory! Sandler as the Wedding Singer will surprise you with his musical talents. And musicians who have run the gamut of various music-related jobs will have extra giggles. And of course Barrymore will dazzle you with her cuteness and poise. This movie will leave you in stitches! And a must see!!!

Sandler & Barrymore Unite!

[anaconda-40658 · 7/10 · 11 May 2015]

The Wedding Singer (1998): Dir: Frank Coraci / Cast: Adam Sandler, Drew Barrymore, Christine Taylor, Allen Covert, Billy Idol: Flashy 1980's nostalgia referring to one factor placed outside a medium. Adam Sandler plays a wedding singer whose girlfriend dumps him. Yet he feels forced to observe the happiness of others while he conceals his pain within song lyrics. He wants to be a songwriter but lost his passion after being stood up on his wedding day. He surveys the guests informing who will never find love. Drew Barrymore plays a waitress who insists that he sing at her wedding until he learns that her fiancé is a cheater. Director Frank Coraci highlights with great 80's music. Sandler is likable and many viewers will likely relate to his trauma with the exception of its lackluster climax aboard a plane. Barrymore survives predictable elements and steals the film with her false visions of love. Christine Taylor and Allen Covert appear in flat supporting roles as those friends often confessed too in movies and either offer the good advice or just conveniently appear with necessary. Then there is musician Billy Idol making an appearance playing himself and it leaves the impression that perhaps acting isn't his strong point. The 1980's pop songs should bring memories for those whom lived through the era. Theme lays emphases on our ability to crush or mend the spirit of others. Score: 7 / 10

The Worst film I have ever had to endure

[Holly_OHara · 1/10 · 17 January 2005]

I watched this film for two reasons: I was told from a variety of quarters that it was great and I have a soft spot for the music and fashions of the decade I grew up in. I cannot put into words just how disappointed I was by the time I had sat through it. The storyline could be predicted by a four year old, with every new 'plot development' leaping in front of the camera like a camera-hungry wannabe long before the script called for it. The jokes, such as I could define them, were also set up with scaffolding just in case the audience might fail to notice them.

Yes, some aspects of the 80s are indeed laughable, however, to devise an entire movie around this 'joke' is really scraping the barrel. The Wedding Singer was on TV about a year ago and I wondered if I should give it another try - perhaps I had been too harsh before. But no, in fact, it was worse on the second viewing and I actually found I could not watch another second... it was just too cringeworthy.

Very funny

[Wild-2 · 5 August 1998]

"The Wedding Singer" is not Adam Sandlers best work, I thought he was best in "Happy Gilmore." Still, he'll still keep you laughing till the end of this movie. Drew Barrymore is also great as the innocent Julia. There are also very funny cameos by Billy Idol and Steve Busiemi.