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8/10
Cosy, but fun.
alice liddell10 September 1999
A heartwarming short, part Nora Ephron 'intellectuals'-in-relationship-inadequacy comedy, part fairy (arf!) tale. It might be argued that this latter is a betrayal of the reality facing gay men even today, but gay cinema has never been about conforming to a reality that would seek to reject, limit or appropriate. The best way to subvert a conservative system or medium is to subvert its systems of signification. This film, seemingly an anodyne WHEN HARRY MET SALLY clone, occasionally flashes teeth. Just because it sacrifices 'plausibility' does not mean that the film is not truthful or honest, whatever those devalued terms mean.

The story concerns the difficulties of a freshman trying to get laid. A familiar tale, and one here treated with sensitivity, wit and a little irony, but fully conscious of the fact that while it may be 'familiar' to many, its more difficult when you're from a wealthy, respectable family, gay in a seemingly macho atmosphere, and can't exactly walk up to anyone you feel like, without fear of hostility, as the girl at the party does, especially when the boy you love is sooo macho. (Indeed, much of the film's humour comes form the observation that macho behaviour is inherently camp, an observation given a neat, sly, twist).

Like Todd Haynes' awesome DOTTIE GOT SPANKED, DOROTHY plays with gay stereotypes (e.g. terrible music taste (Barbara Streisand, Bette Midler - ugh!), sensitive intellectualism (reading DH Lawrence, notoriously a gay-baiter, and yet who had two of his literary altar-egos wrestle nude). Not very specifically, the film seems to follow a WIZARD OF OZ logic, as Winston (after Churchill? Smith?) leaves his reassuring, but dull, and literally monochrome (we don't see it, only the black of the opening credits) home town (where he had few friends, where his parents, who open the short as disembodied Voices Of God, attempt to control his destiny, and where his father thinks he's not normal), for the strange, bright new world of The Village, armed with nothing, but a charming diffidence, adorable hair and his stereotypes (a clumsy attempt at a code for recognition?).

After he has finally consummated a love affair, he starts looking for Judy Garland CDs, and visiting Stonewall, leading into a possible friendship with an almost cultish group of Dorothies, in the film's curious suggestion that he has entered into his inheritance. Surely the film can't be saying that you're not really gay unless you listen to Judy Garland (although she IS my heroine). This Dorothy doesn't want to leave Oz; like her, and unlike most cinematic heroes, he doesn't want to be an individual, an outsider - where outside the system means being stigmatised, and lonely; but needs to belong to feel self-worth.

This is the film's real coup - although there is the fairy-tale (dreamlike?) element, the quest is filled with real pain. The toilet scene is very funny, but also very harrowing, and there is a desperate sense of frustration throughout, and of loss towards the end, as the grasping of the prize is seen to be elusive, unsatisfying and transitory. Thankfully, this isn't one of those gay dramas where doom and renuciation are all that's on offer, just life in all its frightening possiblity.

Raoul O'Connell, the star who also directed, forestalls accusations of narcissism, with a beautifully judged, deceptively rich performance, capturing many difficult emotional nuances. His film style, in which realism is slightly, but crucially tweaked, allied with an original use of music, adds to the films charm. The eventual love scene is a lovely appropriation of soft-focus hetero-romance-fantasy. DOROTHY is no classic; it has little of the darkness or power of the aforementioned DOTTIE, but its balancing act between feel-good and wistful is satisfying, if unaccountably irritating.
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10/10
Excellent movie!!!!
CrowDogg2 March 1999
Guys,

If you have not seen this movie, then I strongly advise it. Although it is very hard to find in a local video store, you can still order it at different locations. It is easier to find this movie on the trio video "Boys Life." I guess the main reason that I thought this video was so excellent was the fact of how cute Raoul O'Connell is.

Winston (Raoul), is a NYU college student who has a major crush on his room mate. Finally toward the end of the movie he gets up enough nerve to finally find out if his room mate is really gay, and which he is. Unfortunately, he found himself a job in California, so once again Winston is left alone.

But anyway, don't want to tell you about the entire movie, Just go and see it!!! I gave it a 10 rating because it is an excellent movie for gay or straight youth.
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Bittersweet journey
mermatt16 September 1999
This is a cute little film telling the story of a gay young man who is desperately trying to find someone with whom he can have his first real gay experience. He experiments around a bit, but he is very frightened -- mainly of himself.

He has a crush on his handsome room mate and doesn't know quite what to do about that. Eventually, he allows himself to be himself and discovers that he is a "friend of Dorothy" -- in other words, someone who, like Dorothy in THE WIZARD OF OZ, wants happiness somewhere over the gay rainbow. The story leaves us with the idea that he can find that happiness.
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9/10
Groundbreaking at the time
waderobson13 May 2016
Warning: Spoilers
Raoul O'Connell's "A Friend of Dorothy" was part of a trilogy of short subjects (mostly student films) that were released by Strand Releasing as a theatrical feature under the "Boys Life" title in 1994. Although these films suffer from their small budgets, this feature was groundbreaking for its day and led to a series of these compilation releases over the years by Strand and others.

Up to this point in time gay cinema presented only tragic themes -- yes, including the supposedly upbeat "Boys in the Band." If you wanted to see an comedic gay "date film" you'd have to settle for a mainstream "chick flick." "Boys Life" and "A Friend of Dorothy" in particular, was the first gay-themed romantic comedy with a happy ending -- no mention of drug or alcohol abuse, deadly disease, death by hate crime, suicide or the milder but still tragic story of coming out to parents with a strong sexual orientation prejudice.

Admittedly, this first attempt at removing the obligatory death and self-loathing elements from gay cinema makes these little films seem a bit anticlimactic or, at least, old fashioned -- like a formulaic Judy Garland/Mickey Rooney classic from the 1940s.

Nevertheless, the considerable success of "Boys Life" eventually gave others the permission they needed to make more ambitious, feature length romantic gay comedies like "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss" (1998, which introduced "Will & Grace" co-star Sean Hayes) and "Trick" (1999).

One interesting factoid: Winston's love interest at the conclusion of "A Friend of Dorothy" is real- life Barbara Streisand impersonator Steven Brinberg. He also does Judy Garland and a very convincing Julie Andrews -- it takes a lot of talent to pull that one off.
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9/10
Cute
ikonrahu16 August 2020
Cute short film. Watched it in a collection with other gay short films. The innocence of having a crush on someone.
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4/10
Nothing too special
Horst_In_Translation9 February 2018
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"A Friend of Dorothy" is an American live action short film from 1994, so this one has its 25th anniversary next year. This one runs for 33 minutes approximately and it is the only career effort as writer and director Raoul O'Connell, who also acts in here and acted in 2 or 3 other movies too, even if nowadays his film career seems long over. You could say that, as much as I despise the term "gay-themed movie", this film was a bit ahead of its time in terms of tolerance when it comes to promoting same-sex attraction. From that perspective the film makes some things right, but also some things wrong like for example the random stranger toilet sex scene added nothing but cheap shock value I guess and for me personally the fact that it is impossible to like or cheer for a character who engages in something like that. Also the moments with all these girls drooling over our "hero" weren't helpful either and the way these and some other scenes were depicted, there was certainly a great deal of cringe involved. Big problem if the filmmaker clearly had the intention to make the protagonist seem likable and use this appreciation in terms of carrying the film too. Did not work out. The Wizard of Oz reference is really weak too in the title in terms of how it was included in the movie, at the very end of it with it feeling so random after all the previous references about stars were on the fairly overrated Barbra Streisand, but it shows that gay icons were the same in the mid-90s as they are today. At least Liza Minnelli was left out, also because I like her. One of the rare positive aspects here was the inclusion of the soundtrack that was fine overall, maybe also the only convincing aspect I wouldn't change. Script, direction and acting all needed improvement here which is why 4 out of 10 is still pretty generous for this one and the material definitely wasn't good enough for half an hour. Watch something else instead.
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1/10
Don't Bother
Bishonen30 July 1999
This movie is extremely inane and illogical; it is predicated on the premise that a cute young college kid cannot get laid on campus--- IN NEW YORK CITY!!! There is some decent photography but none of the characters are interesting and it is a good example of the lazy thinking that goes into a lot of "gay cinema": mainly that if you put some goodlooking guys up on screen, then it will fly as a dramatic piece. A lot of audiences may buy into this half-baked nonsense despite some very implausible situations and rather tiresome body-worship politics but there is much better gay cinema out there: check out the films of Todd Haynes or Barbara Hammer for instance... "Friend of Dorothy" is tiresome nonsense, strictly gay film-fest filler.
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3/10
Once upon a time this was relevant
Coralknight16 March 2016
I'm assuming had I been born into that generation when there weren't already hundreds of "coming out" stories A Friend of Dorothy would have probably been avant guard and brave. But looking at it now for the first time, it seems very self-indulgent without much substance, plot or creativity. I'm thinking this Raoul most likely had aspirations to be an actor and this was his personal "calling card" or "demo reel", because it's mostly him mugging into the camera at different angles trying to come off as 'cute". Unfortunately, that's really all he's doing throughout the film (as opposed to say...acting), so there's not much empathy or connection to his character or any of the others to speak of. So, a few stars for good cinematography and being "brave" for its time, but that's as far as this goes.
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